Back for Good

No, it's not the Take That song. But I've decided to blog again on a regular basis so...

I'm disappointed. Liverpool's season in the league is effectively over. Well, I must say that this has been the closest it's been since I started supporting them so, well, let's hope (again) for next season. And there's still the champs league...albeit RMFC in the way.


Came across this comment on one of the food blogs I frequent and felt like mentioning it here -

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"Marriage isn't for everyone I guess, but personally, it suits me just fine. I am the kind of guy who likes stability and predictability in life, so it is comforting to come home everyday, have my meal, play with the kids, watch TV and go to bed.

I once joked with my wife that one of the reasons I wanted to get married (to her) was the fact that I did not like to say goodbye after a wonderful meal and a movie. I hated taking a bus all by myself after midnight (Those were the NS days). Another good thing about getting married is that you don't have to decide who to go to the movies with and you never have to grapple with the embarassment of being turned down. Ah yes, you also save a lot on phone bills."

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I don't think these are his only reasons but it's kinda true, don't you think? I'm like the guy described - I like stability and I'm comfortable being committed for the rest of my life. But currently, I enjoy the freedom I have - to go out with whoever I want, whenever I want, without having to tell anyone else. No accountability, no responsibilities.

Interestingly, a few doors seem to have opened for me, but I've resisted. Cos in a way, I know these doors aren't the routes to happiness, at least in my own thinking. They're just distractions, so I'm trying to follow the narrow path.


I watched the play put up by my social work juniors and was awed. The acting was really good and as with most movies that I like, it got me thinking... about my work with the boys, the focus of our work and the holes in their hearts that they have to fill, and may never get help in doing so. As I always say, there's so much to do in this world, so many hearts to heal! I'm glad I went for the play and I must say this batch of students are amazing! Kudos to them!

I'm toying with the idea of doing up a food blog thingy, but will focus on the non-fine dining stuff la... cos I don't like the fine dining crap, so little food for ridiculous prices... we'll see how that goes...

gonna sleep now... a long week ahead before I go for my reservist... not sure how tt's gonna turn out too.